Tuesday, December 23, 2025
Saturday, December 6, 2025
Winter's Dramatic Entrance

Our winter season began this past weekend with a snowstorm bringing ten inches of snow and elevating the stores' Christmas sales projections and bringing excitement for snowmobile fans and kids who see enormous delight in a blanket of fresh new snow. I enjoy a beautiful new snow as a photographer and as a Midwestern guy. However, I am also a realist, and I know snow will make me long for the return of spring color and seed catalogs inb about ten days.
The three buildings in the photo captured my attention because the Quonset hut seems nearly besieged by the snow, as the gusting winds blew snow over its sides, nearly covering the top in some places. The farmhouse seems to stand as a fortress resisting the snow and chilling winter winds. My favorite is the barn in the background. It adds some color to a scene where whites and metallic surfaces predominate. I confess to adding just a touch of red to the barn. My motivation was to recognize its role on the farm, suggesting a return to thoughts of plowing, planting, and harvest returning again. For that reason, I added just a touch of red to it, as if this small act of resistance would speed the return of spring.
Saturday, November 29, 2025
That Friday After Thanksgiving
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| No, I am not the tall green guy! |
It is amusing how traditions are born and evolve. The Friday after Thanksgiving has become understood as "Exterior Illumination Day" for my sons and their families. The term is borrowed from the movie "Christmas Vacation," featuring the Griswold family, who attempt to navigate their expectations for Christmas with the realities of their family relationships. The phrase, "You taught me everything I know about exterior illumination", inspired our tradition for this special day after Thanksgiving.
Some thirty years ago, my wife went shopping before Thanksgiving and purchased several boxes of the newest holiday trend, icicle lights, declaring that she would like to see them twinkling on our house for the Christmas season. Formerly, our exterior holiday decorations consisted of a single wreath hung near the door, which was lit tastefully by a single spotlight. It took me less than twenty minutes to create the entire holiday display. I used to feel pretty smug about looking like we had holiday spirit without all that excessive effort others invested in the creation of their elaborate light displays.
Those multiple boxes of icicle lights were a message to me that things were about to change. Metaphorically, the icicle lights were my Christmas star, although I didn't know it at the time. I plodded forward by removing the lights from their boxes and attempting to untangle them, then stretching each kinked icicle strand. My epiphany then was that I should not suffer alone. Therefore, I mandated my two sons join me as "co-sufferers" in this onerous task on that Friday after Thanksgiving some thirty years ago.
We began our morning with a hot breakfast at the local diner to numb our suspicions that today would be a total waste of our time and hopefully would trend away as a one-and-done affair. As we hung those icicle lights, we learned about the intricacies of installing cup hooks or gutter clips in subfreezing temps. We discovered that these tasks require removal of gloves. No pain, no gain! We also learned that exterior illumination requires planning for the direction of installing strings of lights so they end near an electrical outlet. Nothing sucks away the Hallmark moment more than realizing that you must reinstall the lights because they are strung away from the only outdoor outlet. Together, we learned that Christmas lights carry restrictions regarding how many strings may fit together, and in the process of gaining this knowledge, we also learned it is never wise to craft an extension cord with two male connectors. Oh, the things we learned during those first years. In spite of these setbacks, we were encouraged by the way the lights sparkled at night and illuminated our achievements.
Today, we are experts at exterior illumination because it says so on the sweatshirts we wear on that Friday--- Griswold & Sons, Exterior Illumination Experts. As the years passed, our tradition didn't fade even as our lives changed. When college took each son away from home, the boys would call before returning home to see what Mom was cooking that Thanksgiving and to check whether we would be putting up the Christmas lights together again. Their calls helped me understand that this task had transitioned from being just another chore to being something more significant.
I am pleased to report that our "family business" has grown as each of my sons has invited their daughters or sons to join us on this one special Friday after Thanksgiving. Many more company shirts were ordered, and we now require the diner's largest table for our pre-decorating breakfast. We still freeze our hands and butts, still laugh about the decorating mistakes we continue to make, and still freely quote lines from the "Christmas Vacation" movie while seeing ourselves embracing the approaching Christmas and one another.
As I reflect on this silly and simple tradition, I stand amazed that what was once a bothersome task evolved to become a celebrated holiday tradition. It gives me deep pride to see that each of them has embraced the practice of decorating one another's homes, and they continue including me in the process. I no longer climb the ladder, but I do my best to try not to get my feet entangled in the light cords or step on the bulbs. The grandkids who joined us over the years remained with us through their high school and into their college years. They even shunned the lure of Black Friday sales to kick off their holiday season by untangling balls of Christmas lights and hanging those lights in chilling weather as if we knew what we were doing. Like me, they have discovered that the joy and love we crave for the holidays can still be found in a simple and silly holiday tradition that takes place every year on that very special Friday following Thanksgiving.
Monday, November 24, 2025
Happy Thanksgiving
Sunday, November 9, 2025
Full Heart And Full Shelves
My photo this week concerns the loss of SNAP benefits due to the government shutdown. I am fortunate to be able to work weekly at an area food pantry that receives absolutely no government assistance. We are a small community Food pantry committed to serving a small region within the county. All pantry staff are volunteers. Most of the people we serve receive SNAP and our pantry supplements those benefits. Without SNAP benefits our clients are totally dependent upon the local food pantry. Most of our clients fall into one of three classes: 1. elderly poor with fixed income, 2. mentally or physically handicapped who have collapsed under the burden of crushing medical bills, and 3. families in transition where a young mother has been deserted by a husband or the head of the family has lost their job or has been injured and is in need of temporary assistance. Before the loss of SNAP, we were serving about sixty families weekly.
I used the word "fortunate" in describing my relationship with the food pantry -- its clients and the volunteers. This week's photo is one among others which have been used as notecards to thank our donors. What brings me joy in volunteering is what I learn about real life from people in my community. The national news I read brings division, disaster, and dread to my life daily, if I allow it. My pantry experiences are not filtered through a government talking head spewing statistics and political spin about the needs of hungry people. Being part of the food pantry keeps me in touch with how ordinary people work across their differences to deliver help when needed. From our clients I see their joy in being able to receive the most basic grocery items that we take for granted. At least four times this week, I heard our neediest clients tell a volunteer that they could take less if they knew others wouldn't be served. (I admit this made me feel guilty for wishing I had more when I should be feel grateful for having everything I really need.)
Monday, October 6, 2025
Why Not Meatloaf?
Tuesday, September 30, 2025
The Hmmm of Street Photography
Monday, September 22, 2025
Taking a Different Look
Wednesday, September 17, 2025
The Doughnut Maker
Monday, September 8, 2025
One Final Summer Scene
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| Milwaukee Harbor |
This week's blog photo is the final in the series, Here Comes Summer. Nothing says summer like the freedom that comes with sailing across a blue lake on a summer breeze. I took this photo about two years ago while attending an event on the shore of Lake Michigan. What caught my eye at that time was the monchromatic shades of blue that provided a feeling of relaxation, stillness, and tranquility. The color blue holds mystery because it can convey stillness and peace but can re-appear within the same setting as white capped waves on steel blue swells pushed by stormy blasts. Pschologically, the color blue can transform our peaceful feelings of relaxation and harmony to their polar opposites triggering thoughts of anxiety and loneliness.
Here Comes Summer Series #5
Saturday, August 30, 2025
Beginnings and Endings
Monday, August 18, 2025
Summer Sandcastles
History is a child building a sand-castle by the sea, and that child is the whole majesty
of man's power in the world.
Heraclitus
This week's photo may be my favorite photo that I have taken in 2025. This photo was taken mid evening during an intermission at a water ski exhibition. Since I anticipated shooting skiers and power boats skimming across the water, I brought my longest lens, the Nikon 200--500 f5.6. For the majority of my frames that evening this lens was a perfect choice. It was during the intermission, when the all activity on the water briefly paused, that I took the best photo that evening. As I think back on my photography experiences, I am so grateful for the wonderful pictures that came to me when I least expected to see them. There are a multitude of classes and videos that can help you become a better photographer, but there is no way to cultivate serendipty.
When I saw the little girl at the water's edge trying to reconstruct her sandcastle, I was immediately drawn to the solitude and serenity she exhibited as she sifted through the sand for its missing pieces, Her sunbleached hair and the summer sundress in the soft evening light made her a compelling subject. The setting sun had turned the water to a golden tone with a few speckled strands of silver dancing through it. Even before I squeezed the shutter button, I could see the final picture developing in my mind.
I took two quick snaps of this scene knowing that children do not hold genuine poses for long. For one shot I zoomed in and other I backed out to bring in more of the scene. It's the later one that I felt offered the most compelling story. The story within my mind was not about a little girl but about a child's innocence while exploring a bigger world. In fact, that was the very reason for choosing the image showing more of the scene and for adding a warm glow filter to soften the child's features and smooth the water.
This photo made me think about the informal process I use to tell a story with a photograph. Recognizing what is before me even when I may be searching for something else is the first critical step. Stories sometimes just unfold unexpectedly. To capture the moment, I took two photos because I didn't know then which option would speak to me more when I reviewed it later. (Sometimes I don't know what I am seeing at the moment other than my mind prompts me to act on what is happening right now.) Step two took place in post processing after making the decision on which photo to publish. At that moment, I began to focus on how to best share my feelings about the image. To make sure that the viewer would be lead to a similar feeling about the photo, I began to eliminate any elements within the photo that were not necessary and identify which areas to enhance that would strengthen my storyline. The third and final step was to review the nearly final result to determine whether I had remained consistent to the scene and my feelings about what I viewed as the theme. I look for additional subtle cues which my viewers may need to understand my story or build a similar story for themselves.
For me, this photo is about exploring our world with childlike innocence. There is an aloneness in childhood that is critical to their development. This aloneness is not to be confused with loneliness. These periods of aloneness allow a child to ponder peacefully the world on their terms and to explore some of mysteries within their environment. Sandcastles are a magical and imaginative structures to build, but they are not a structures to be remodeled once the waves sweep their pieces back into the waters. However, with a bit more experience and knowledge, newer versions of future sandcastles can be built, but this time with the understanding that they are ephemeral structures to be cherished in the present state before they return to their natural form --- grains of sand on the beach. This little girl will learn that special joy that comes from building sandcastles which is an activity unlike gathering and collecting seashells. And when the waves once more reclaim the beach it is not perceived as a melancholy experience but a mutual understanding about waves of change that carry us through life making these serendipitous moments exquisite as they welcome us to new places yet to be explored.
Here Comes Summer Series #4
Monday, August 11, 2025
Water, Wind, and Waves
Here is a slice of midwest surfing to showcase summer's energy. The water featured in last week's blog portrayed a soothing view of summer but this week the water portrays a source of summer excitement challenging the body and energizing the spirit.
For me, photographing water skiing is all about the splash and motion. To avoid background issues and to minimize highlight blow outs from the intense setting sun, I needed to hold a tight crop on the subject and only photograph the subject using certain camera angles. Because I like to get the athlete's facial expression in any sporting event, the tight cropped shooting fit my style. Her shades added style.
Here Comes Summer Series #3
Monday, August 4, 2025
Soaking Up Summer
Okay, this is not the photograph I expected to share when I wrote last week's blog about the scenes of summer. This photo doesn't come close to beckoning thoughts of summer favorites like "Surfer Girl" or "Fun, Fun, Fun". But in a back roads sort of way, it does present itself as the rural response to the summertime favorite "Summer in the City" by the Lovin Spoonful. These porkers are getting the backs of their necks all "dirty n gritty" while enjoying a fragrant "Summer Breeze" of their own making.
What appeals to me about this photo is that it portrays a viewpoint that is not commonly associated in our typical scenes of summer pleasures. But look again at that ruddy jowly grin and tell me you can't see satisfaction on a blistering August day.
Did you know that pigs wallow to regulate their temperature and protect themselves from sunburn? For pigs, wallowing in mud is a social behavior that encourages a sense of belonging. Now, picture with me a crowded California beach packed with beautiful sun tanned bodies who are picnicing while trying to escape the summer's heat. Urban mimics rural!
While photography is a way to express a point of view, our personal viewpoint may not be exclusive or even the one that resonates with the viewer. Once a photo is shared, it takes on a story of its own creation within the viewer's mind. Sometimes photography can be used to share an alternative view that is not readily noticed even within a similar context --- yes, like the literary children's classic, Charlotte's Web.
Here Comes Summer Series #2
Monday, July 28, 2025
Those Lazy Hazy Days of Summer
Monday, July 14, 2025
About Showing Up
The scene for this week's blog was taken at a wellness center/ emergency care facility near me. The campus is designed with native prairie plants and water features which are distributed along various walking paths crisscrossing the facility. For a place whose mission is health and wellness, their design for the exterior aligns well with their work occuring inside the walls. Just walking from the parking lot to the front doors begins a subtle process of refocusing the mind.
Monday, June 30, 2025
Carry Flowers ; Wear a Smile
Tuesday, June 24, 2025
Swimming in the Wake
This week my wife and I celebrated or 50th wedding anniversary with family and friends. We rented a venue and invited about 55-60 people who share a family history with us. Although we invited our children to help us plan the celebration, they stealthfully took over all aspects from designing and sending invitations to the final clean up after the event ended. In short, they largely intended to keep us somewhat removed until the day of the event. We loved and will forever cherish their efforts!
The day before our party, I grew anxious as a kid does when anticipating Christmas Day. To help settle myself, I grabbed my camera and headed to nearby Nygren Wetlands for an hour. Being alone in nature has a way of emotionally centering me and mentally reorganizing my thoughts into a new perspective. While at the wetlands, I watched and photographed a momma Mallard and her brood of six ducklings.
When I first spotted them, they were well out of range for a photo so I patiently waited for them as they slowly came nearer. I'm not a patient person, but I'm learning to be one and I mentally chuckled at the irony of a guy waiting for over one half hour while holding a camera designed to shoot thirty frames per second and to instantaneously focus and track any variety of speedy subjects. While designed for speed, my gear is a slave to nature's timing. This is why my spouse and family continue to educate me in the value of waiting patiently for things to come to me. Photography has helped me put this truth into practice.
As momma Mallard and her crew meandered nearer, her ducklings squirted in and out of the grasses exploring and splashing each other as if playing some variety of duck tag. Momma casually paddled up the rear some distance behind her ducklings as if this was her time to enjoy some peace. She seemed to enjoy leisurely eating snacks, but would occasionally abruptly stop and scan her surroundings and check for her rambunctious little quackers. When they were directly in front of me, momma gave some sort of secret signal that immediately gathered her little brood about her. At that point, momma made an about turn and began swimming resolutely in the opposite direction with all her little fuzz balls falling into line as if they were a polished drill team.
Still thinking about our celebration just hours away, I thought about those 50 years of marriage and how we traveled together over those many years. I noticed the wake flowing in evering widening ripples behind this little duck family, and I thought about how our marriage was similar to what was unfolding before my eyes.
How fortunate I have been to love and share a life with a woman who intuitively knows when it is her turn to swim at the point. There have been many times during our 50 years where one or the other of us found comfort swimming behind the other within their wake where life's waters were smoother and the path was clearly marked by the other.
I am pleased when I see our adult married children also taking turns swimming at the point with their spouses. It is comforting to know that we are welcome to join within their wake when we experience choppy waters.
It is exciting to celebrate personal achievements like a 50th wedding anniversary because they mark important milestones in our lives. These celebrations highlight the good choices made and the commitments made to one another for better or for worse over time. They are made sweeter by reminding us of the love and graciousness offered by the many others who have permitted us to swim in their wakes when we needed support and direction along life's journey.
Sunday, June 8, 2025
Now You See It, and Now You Don't!
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I Wish I Were an Oscar Mayer ...
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